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Wednesday, January 29, 2014
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Monday, January 27, 2014
The Less Known A-Spot
You've heard of the G-spot, but have you heard of the A-spot? It's a little less known, as well as the U-spot. Both being spots further in the vagina that when stimulated help achieve orgasm or even multiple orgasms.
Some sex researchers believe there’s something called an A-Spot, which is further up inside the vagina from the G-Spot, and might facilitate female ejaculation. How to reach it: Place both index and middle fingers inside her, and stick out your thumb as if you're hitchhiking. It'll pull your fingers more snugly against her vaginal walls, stimulating both the A-spot and G-spot simultaneously. Then use your thumb to also stimulate her clitoris, and gently twist your hand.
Check out Dr. Oz's video about better sex and the A and U spot.
Some sex researchers believe there’s something called an A-Spot, which is further up inside the vagina from the G-Spot, and might facilitate female ejaculation. How to reach it: Place both index and middle fingers inside her, and stick out your thumb as if you're hitchhiking. It'll pull your fingers more snugly against her vaginal walls, stimulating both the A-spot and G-spot simultaneously. Then use your thumb to also stimulate her clitoris, and gently twist your hand.
Check out Dr. Oz's video about better sex and the A and U spot.
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Dirty Talk and Sexting
Keep the romance alive and well by talking dirty, saying sweet and flirty things, both in person and via texting. Staying in regular contact with your partner and letting him/her know that you're thinking of them, that they are regularly on your mind and that you can't wait to be with them again is a great way to keep the fire lit in your sex life.
The passion can wane with time, but if you continue to share yourself both emotionally and physically you can renew it by flirting and sexting on a somewhat regular basis. Taking boudoir photos is another good idea to share with your partner. Coming up with different sex games, role playing and going back to just kissing and foreplay without sex can help the sparks return as well.
Asking your partner specifically what they like and what they want can also be a big help and being completely open and honest about what you would like is always best as well. You can use the site Mojo Upgrade to take an interactive sex questionnaire to find out your partner's hidden sexual fantasies.
The passion can wane with time, but if you continue to share yourself both emotionally and physically you can renew it by flirting and sexting on a somewhat regular basis. Taking boudoir photos is another good idea to share with your partner. Coming up with different sex games, role playing and going back to just kissing and foreplay without sex can help the sparks return as well.
Asking your partner specifically what they like and what they want can also be a big help and being completely open and honest about what you would like is always best as well. You can use the site Mojo Upgrade to take an interactive sex questionnaire to find out your partner's hidden sexual fantasies.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
The Sybian Device
Via Wikipedia
A Sybian or Sybian saddle, is a masturbation device designed for use by women. It was developed by dance instructor Dave Lampert in the 1980s. It consists of a saddle-like seat containing an electric motor, gearbox speed reducer, and mechanism connected to a rod that protrudes from a hole in the top center. Various attachments can be added to the rod, which vibrates, rotates and may also stimulate the clitoris externally. The intensity of the movements produced can be increased or decreased through a control box attached to the Sybian's base.
The success of the Sybian in helping many women achieve orgasm more easily than through traditional intercourse with a man is believed to be the absence of the vigorous thrusting motion usually associated with coitus, which provides the proper stimulation for a man to achieve orgasm, but is generally not the stimulation required for most women to achieve orgasm.
Lampert has stated that "the greatest hoax played upon the world is the importance of the male stroking during intercourse...used in nearly all male/female porno material" citing studies which show that only about a third of all women say thrusting feels good, to a degree, and that only 18% say they believe they can have an orgasm from any form of stroking.
From his research and experience, Lampert came to realize that the woman-superior position during intercourse works best for female orgasm and that stimulation is enhanced when the penis remains fully inserted and the woman rocks her pelvis forward and backward, making contact with the sensitive G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, anterior to the location of the exterior clitoris.
With this in mind, Lampert designed the Sybian to help women become proficient in the woman-superior (Girl on top) position. For many women, the external vibrations along the clitoris produced by the Sybian while in the woman-superior position are enough to easily stimulate clitoral orgasms. In addition, the optional penetrating attachments gently rotate to stimulate the vaginal walls and G-spot at variable speeds while also vibrating to help a woman learn how to have multiple, G-spot orgasms. Women are also instructed to rock their pelvis forward and back while using the Sybian with a penetration attachment to enhance stimulation of the G-spot along the front wall of the vagina.
Once a woman has developed her G-spot sensitivity in this way, she often requires minimal stimulation of the G-spot to become multiple orgasmic. Thus, the Sybian functions not only as a masturbation device, but as a training device to prepare the woman for greater pleasure during intercourse in the woman-superior position with a man of any penis size.
A Sybian or Sybian saddle, is a masturbation device designed for use by women. It was developed by dance instructor Dave Lampert in the 1980s. It consists of a saddle-like seat containing an electric motor, gearbox speed reducer, and mechanism connected to a rod that protrudes from a hole in the top center. Various attachments can be added to the rod, which vibrates, rotates and may also stimulate the clitoris externally. The intensity of the movements produced can be increased or decreased through a control box attached to the Sybian's base.
The success of the Sybian in helping many women achieve orgasm more easily than through traditional intercourse with a man is believed to be the absence of the vigorous thrusting motion usually associated with coitus, which provides the proper stimulation for a man to achieve orgasm, but is generally not the stimulation required for most women to achieve orgasm.
Lampert has stated that "the greatest hoax played upon the world is the importance of the male stroking during intercourse...used in nearly all male/female porno material" citing studies which show that only about a third of all women say thrusting feels good, to a degree, and that only 18% say they believe they can have an orgasm from any form of stroking.
From his research and experience, Lampert came to realize that the woman-superior position during intercourse works best for female orgasm and that stimulation is enhanced when the penis remains fully inserted and the woman rocks her pelvis forward and backward, making contact with the sensitive G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, anterior to the location of the exterior clitoris.
With this in mind, Lampert designed the Sybian to help women become proficient in the woman-superior (Girl on top) position. For many women, the external vibrations along the clitoris produced by the Sybian while in the woman-superior position are enough to easily stimulate clitoral orgasms. In addition, the optional penetrating attachments gently rotate to stimulate the vaginal walls and G-spot at variable speeds while also vibrating to help a woman learn how to have multiple, G-spot orgasms. Women are also instructed to rock their pelvis forward and back while using the Sybian with a penetration attachment to enhance stimulation of the G-spot along the front wall of the vagina.
Once a woman has developed her G-spot sensitivity in this way, she often requires minimal stimulation of the G-spot to become multiple orgasmic. Thus, the Sybian functions not only as a masturbation device, but as a training device to prepare the woman for greater pleasure during intercourse in the woman-superior position with a man of any penis size.
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Masturbation
Oftentimes masturbation can be a very personal thing and therefore make you uncomfortable or shy to do it around or with a partner. Perhaps doing it in front of a partner or with a partner makes you feel self conscious or awkward but masturbation is a very healthy thing for both women and men. There's nothing shameful in it, it's normal to masturbate, even on a regular basis.
Masturbation relieves stress and keeps your heart rate, blood pressure, reproductive system and brain chemistry in good shape. A woman who masturbates is more likely to orgasm during intercourse and oral sex. Taking turns and watching your partner masturbate can tell you what your partner likes and how they get off. Masturbating each other is a great quickie; and the more you do it, the better you become at learning which buttons to push to make her come faster.
Masturbation relieves stress and keeps your heart rate, blood pressure, reproductive system and brain chemistry in good shape. A woman who masturbates is more likely to orgasm during intercourse and oral sex. Taking turns and watching your partner masturbate can tell you what your partner likes and how they get off. Masturbating each other is a great quickie; and the more you do it, the better you become at learning which buttons to push to make her come faster.
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Foreplay, Kissing and Sex Games
Sex toys with vibration and simple things that feel good against the skin like cotton, silk, feathers and such lightly caressed over the body tend to help many women feel sexy and ready. Sex games that involve dice and instruct partners on what to do next can be a fun way for people to randomly try different things.
Foreplay, kissing and little sex games or flirtatiousness help build and increase the desire between two parties engaging in sex. Sometimes the foreplay can even be better then the act itself because sometimes the thought of something is actually better than partaking in the physical act. If you can get your partner to finish for you through just flirting, foreplay, kissing and minimal touching then you surely have both their mind and their body.
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